Is your cup half-full or half-empty?

The other day during a discussion where the other person was telling me that America is drowning in paranoia, I happened to mention something that I observed over several years visiting America.

Fairly often, I would be in a hotel downtown somewhere, and get up early enough to walk around a little bit. I have made it my habit during these walks to smile at people and say, "Good morning!" I have to admit that relatively few people respond, either by smiling, saying good morning themselves, or even just looking at me. Quite a few people seem to be head down, don't bother me, I'm on my way to work.

Before I could say what I think about this, the other person nodded fiercely and said, "See! Paranoia. Everyone in America is just drowning in it."

I suppose I can see where he interpreted this kind of behavior as supporting his position. I have to admit, personally, I take it as a challenge. I still say, "Good morning!" And smile at people. I think if enough of us decide to be optimistic no matter what, we can change the world.

So start your morning with a smile, a wink, and a cheerful, "Good morning!"

Fill the cup, don't just dump it!